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RE: “we need to talk”

If you haven’t read it, here’s the post from a few days ago: “we need to talk.”

It seems I got my panties all in a bunch for nothing.. at least nothing yet.

I arrived at the park, like we had planned.. 10 minutes before our scheduled play date.  As I am pulling in the parking lot, I get a text that said her kids just woke up.  I’m sorry, but if I have plans to be somewhere (which in a fact I did) I wake the kids up and get them ready in a timely manner as to be as closely on time as possible (which in fact I did). You don’t let them sleep in until when ever the heck the feel like it.

WHAT-the-eff-ever.

That’s when I was over it. She obviously didn’t want to talk that bad, or she would have made even a small effort.

By the time she got there, the other moms had arrived. She was acting a little weird, but we chatted like nothing was wrong. We talked about future playdates and things to do with the kids.

She and I were the last two to leave. She had me alone, to say whatever was on her mind. But did she say a word? Nope.. she just left.

Again I say… WHAT-the-eff-ever.

Now  I am really over it.  I’m not going to waste my time wondering or worrying what her problem is, it is soooo not worth it.

Seriously, it’s your thing. I’m not going to ask you what your problem is. You have stuff to get off your chest, open your mouth, I’ll listen. When I wanted to know why you weren’t talking to me last time, I opened my mouth and said “are you mad at me?” See how easy that is?

Oh- and she even had another opportunity… she was at my house the next day. We had a playdate here… she could have gotten there early, stayed after everyone left… said something… even, “hey can we talk later/tomorrow/on the phone/ next week?” something, anything. But she chose not to say a peep.

So, I am not going to give it a second thought. I have real things in my life to worry about right now. Not crap that is feeling like stupid high school drama. I don’t have the time or energy to deal with that.

But I will be sure to give you an update should I ever find out what the problem is! 🙂

 

 

 

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I need to shake off the crazy and move on.

I’ve reached my limit of dealing with crazy people for the day. 

I have hit psycho overload.

Yes, I admit, I did open the can of worms. But it was with the best of intentions and I was just trying to get some answers since I am baffled.

As I mentioned yesterday the Psycho part of my “The Good, the weird and the Psycho” day is my Brother-in-law’s Baby Mama.

We have had quite a volatile relationship, I’ve known her for a little over 7 years. We’ve had our share of ups and many many MANY downs.  She’s always been on a roller coaster of being like my sister and then finding weird reasons to hate me. I really don’t get it. Other than she’s had a kind of rough life, and like I said yesterday the apple doesn’t fall far from the psycho tree.  She had a baby when she was 15 and I don’t think sometimes she’s matured beyond that.

She has quite the history of violence in her life, lots of lies and manipulation, drinking and drugs.. the list really goes on and on.  She’s married now, and has 3 kids and is living a pretty normal life. From what I’ve seen and heard I thought she was really a new person and had changed a lot.

But as they say: The more things change, the more they stay the same.

As it became clear to me this morning, she hasn’t changed one bit.

It just makes me sad that she has to drag my niece into the middle this stupid mess.  I still don’t have a clue as to why she’s mad at me, but it is very clear that she is. And she doesn’t feel it is necessary to clue me in to the reason.

To be frank, is really pissing me off. Which, is probably the point. She’s acting all high and mighty, like she has some upper hand in the situation… She is probably completley enjoying the fact that she got under my skin.

She said she “would never” keep my niece away from me. But who unfriended us? Hmmm… Um.. she did.

She said it’s “not important” and “not serious” why she’s mad at me. Then just tell me. But in the same breath she says it would “offend” me. I said bring it on.. offend me. Oh, and then she went on to say that my niece is “a good judge of character.” Which sounds like to me this is some attack on my character.

WTF.

I just don’t know what to think anymore. I know I need to stop worrying about it… shake off the crazy and move along.  But it’s really bugging me.. she’s making it out to be like my niece has some problem with me too… since she’s such a “good judge of character” and all.

I can’t for the life of me figure out what I did that was so wrong.

I think I’m a good person. After all I have been through with this person, I have tried to be civil and friendly to her.  I’ve ALWAYS been good to the kids. I love them more than she will ever know… I would give them the shirt off my back.. I would do anything for them. I can’t understand how she can call my character into question, when she is the one with the incredibly spotty track record.

UGH. I’m just so frustrated. And I guess I will never know… since I kind of told her I didn’t need people like her in my life. Which, is very very true.

I’m trying to cut down on the crazy. 

My only hope now is that my brother-in-law can get to the bottom of this, or that my niece will tell me… although I doubt that since she has to live with the psycho… and any repercussions that go along with talking to me… becasue sadly I’m sure there are.

Sigh.